The-Dream Speaks Out on Failed Marriage to Christina Milian

The-Dream and Christina Milian

The-Dream is singing a different tune. The singer-songwriter has written an open letter addressing his separation from the mother of his daughter, Christina Milian. He blames the failed marriage on himself, saying he and his wife of less than a year grew apart for reasons other than him being with another woman. After apologizing for causing embarrassment to everyone involved, he reveals that he even contemplated taking his own life at one point. Read what he had to say below.

In My Own Words:

First I want to thank God for the trials of life, without them we can’t know purpose!

I would love to tell the truth as to why my relationship wasn’t successful, but today that is between me and Christina. Its easy to say that it’s because of another woman or a new relationship but truthfully, IT’S NOT.

I take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for misleading everyone into thinking everything was fine and okay when we knew problems existed for awhile! I wanted to speak up but we decided it wasn’t for anyone to know. I would NEVER intentionally hurt a soul and everyone around me knows that! There was so much going on in me and Christina’s personal world that I tried to deal with it as delicately as I could and tried to regain my footing. Instead of being direct in order not to cause even more hurt or hurt someone’s feelings, I carried the weight in secret!

I am Human and people fall in and out of Love all the time… This is Life. Nothing’s promised or perfect, neither am I. I am not proud that I lost something we once had…LOVE! I’ve always been a Loving Father, Hard Worker, Generous, Stern and Eager to prove myself. My faults are I can be irresponsible and an ass sometimes, but I HAVE NEVER and WILL NEVER be a malicious person or wish harm to anyone, especially those I love or the mother of my child. I’m sorry for the embarrassment to everyone involved! If there’s anyone to blame and you can’t fathom this happening, please blame me and me alone for not being upfront! Even though we were trying to overcome personal things between us, I was just simply scared and embarrassed to let everyone know we WERE FAILING and HAVE NOW FAILED!

This is not to justify anything, it’s true emotion! It’s a real thing that involves real people! I’ve cried about this for months, after interviews, after prayer and I’ve tried to take my own life at a point because of the failure that was looming.

But I was reminded by my MOTHER that I am not “Superman” and its okay to lose sometimes…

This too shall pass! And everything will be fine!

~ Terius Nash ~



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21 Comments

  1. Jeffery J-Boe

    Whatever With The-Dream Lame Whack Azzhole, I’m Not Buying This At All Or That Lame Azz Album Called “Love King” Who The Hell Is You Anyway, This Dude Don’t Know Shit About LOVE… And I Hope Christina Don’t Stay With Him, and Hurry Up, and Divorce Him, and Get All The Money From Him For You, and Your Beautiful Daughter Violet… Christina, & Violet Milian For 2010, and Beyond.

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  2. jeremydante

    who the fuck cheats on christina milian though? like for real. & christina should’ve used her judgement, especially since similar situations arose with dream & nivea- which have resulted in an additional three kids prior to dream having violet with milian. the-dream is a dumb ass.

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    geishagirl Reply:

    @jeremydante,
    Nick Cannon, The-Dream.
    Apparently her goodies aren’t so great after all.

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  3. BV

    man. the RADIO KILLA is slippin big time. TREY SONGZ still the MAN!

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    geishagirl Reply:

    @BV,
    Trey Songz is still da man? Not with that wack “BOTTOMS UP” song he’s not.

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    BV Reply:

    @geishagirl,

    nicki kills her verse are u serious? and trey the shit. READY is the BEST R&B album of last year.

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  4. COMPASSION

    It takes a man to admit his mistakes openly and apologize. He’s only a man! I don’t agree with what has transpired in his relationship(s) or the fact that children are involved. However he has apologized for all of his mistakes. It is my sincere prayer that People would stop stringing people along in relationships where there is no “LOVE”. I think Christina is a beautiful younglady undeserving of this chaos and mayhem but she’s not the first beautiful woman to face chaos and mayhem. To me it’s better to find out in 12 months than to continue for 50 years in a unfulfilling situation. It is my prayer that forgiveness will be a priority in their lives for the sake of a healthy relationship with the children and them. Moving forward if we can spend more time praying for each other we will have less time for finger pointing. None of us are perfect, contrary to belief. We all have faults therefore no one is exempt. Peace & Love

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  5. Dillon_68

    Keep your head up Dream, everyone makes mistakes.

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  6. LShea

    I agree that it was good that it ended as early as possible, especially after trying; it’s only unfortunate that a child is involved BUT it’s actually worse to stay together if there’s no love and there are a lot of problems. Children don’t need to grow up around a lot of controversy. Just let it end and move on. It’s good.

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  7. Billy

    I like his consistent usage of all-caps. It REALLY makes him sound intelligent.

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  8. Diamond Girl

    U can only respect the man for coming forward and speaking up and out!! He doesn’t owe anyone besides her and that baby an explanation., honestly! I feel that he has been battling “demons” for sometime now since he moved on so rapidly bfrom Nivea. He never dealt with those issues before moving on to and marrying Christina. Whom he Never should have married in the first place. Hopefully he’s seeks professional help and not repeat this action again..Until fully capable of such commitment. Things need to be said. Although I’m sure she’s hurting now Better late than never. He will make sure she and the baby will be ok financially. Life moves on

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  9. Jamie

    He’s just trying to save face, he’s quoted in US magazine as saying his baby daughter is “an expensive love tax” who says that about their child? I feel bad for Christina whole heartedly but she should of been more careful in who she picked to have a child with, I hope Dream can be a real man and take care of that beautiful little girl more than just financially, but from all his quoted remarks as of late I think financially is all he’s going to take care of for Violet. And I hope Dream stops talking about this situation cause he’s just making himself look worse, imo

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  10. Antonio

    Can’t A Man Apoligize Without People Attacking Him, How Do You Know Hes Faking It?

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  11. ULISES

    I don’t think I could work with him.

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  12. BROOKLYNKIGHT

    i agree wit jamie i dont believe him at all n seriously thought abt killin hiself???really thats wat were doin now??? like i been sayin fuk a Nash

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  13. AYE!

    Haha there is a google ad next to this story that says “How to survive an affair” and it has a picture of this lady looking all doped up.

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  14. vmars08

    Do vows mean NOTHING to him? You may not want to admit that your marriage has failed, but if you aren’t trying to hurt anyone, then you don’t cheat on them while you’re still married to them!

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  15. True Blue

    Weak attempt to save his image. Attempted suicide? Please. He didn’t sound like someone with a guilty conscience when he said in an interview that he doesn’t help raise his child because his helping “turns into expectations”. So in addition to being a crappy singer, a crappy songwriter, and crappy husband, he’s also a crappy father. Wow, what woman wouldn’t fall head over heels for that.

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  16. Yesisaidit

    I hoped they wouldn’t fall apart but wow. I guess Dream is not the ultimate “dream” after all.He’s a nightmare when it comes to relationships. Nivea, Xtina…who next? He better not come out with a reality tv show looking for love. I WON’T WATCH!

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  17. island girl

    At the end of the day, he is just a cheating dog. Now he is just embarrased because he got caught. His also a coward to even think about taking his own life..if that’s even true. Does he think that he would not get caught in photos by going to another country to do his nastiness? Now, I think he is a pig. His mama should slap him upside his head after telling him he is not “superman”.

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  18. nyce

    I used to like The Dream but not any more regardless if he spoke up to try and clean up he still had no remorse for how he got his wife to sign a pre nup in the hospital 9 days before giving birth. That was cold-blooded. That’s not a man that’s that nigga shit men do when they realize they need to regain the control that was lost when she found out the truth. He shoulda just chalked it up and made an agreement with her on mutual grounds while she hade a sound mind and after she gave birth and presented it to both lawyers. Hope you can prove it in court Cristina!!!!

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