Christina Milian Opens Up About Failed Marriage to The-Dream

The-Dream and Christina Milian

Christina Milian is starting off the new year by coming to terms with the past. The sexy singer is revealing what caused her divorce from The-Dream and what she’s learned from the trying experience.

The 29-year-old opens up to Latina magazine about the cheating scandal that rocked her world. “I didn’t know anything. But looking back, my gut was telling me something was off. But I thought I could fix it,” she said after pics surfaced online of her former husband getting close with his personal assistant.

But she still tried to make things work. “No matter what, you can’t change who you are. I know that now. I tried to be someone I wasn’t because I wanted my marriage to work. But ultimately, if it’s not working, it’s not working.”

She also shares how the breakup helped her become more self-aware and resilient in dealing with heartache. “I learned a lot about myself this year,” she explained. “I learned what I can handle. I learned how much I can take. I learned who I am and what I will accept for myself and my daughter.”

Describing herself as feeling “brand new,” the Cuban-American songstress gushed about how much she loves being a mom to daughter Violet, and how it’s changed her life in unexpected ways. “Being a new mother definitely makes me feel so much sexier than ever before,” she said. “There’s a certain responsibility that I carry being a mom that makes me feel very confident and so blessed. Being a mom is the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”

Her newfound confidence comes in the wake of her divorce from The-Dream, who she married in September 2009 after becoming pregnant with his child. They announced their separation last summer.

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  1. Brionna

    what doesn’t kill u makes u stronger …so good for C.M. that she as grown and is moving on from the situation


  2. Jay S.

    Good for her! I wish her success in all aspects of her life!


  3. Phoenix_Wright

    Great for her, live & learn always


  4. jeremydante

    she should focus on her career more & stop riding on this drama. leave that shit in 2009, it’s a new year christina.


  5. Yup that's me

    I always loved C. Milie she always seemed like a sweet girl


  6. phil

    u noe wot milan i learnt alot from wot u said,i love ur strenght n courage, n im gonna tell u to be more stronger n carry on.


  7. Lil' Nello

    Good to see Christina moving on & she’s 1 hot mama! I always thought she was really sexy & that she seemed real sweet which is why I don’t understand why dudes like Nick & then Dream would cheat on her! Truth be told 1 of the sexiest women walking the earth & seeing a women exceed confidence like that after having a baby is even more sexy! Wish her the best in finding the right someone because she deserves it after the headache she’s gone through & I know if I ever had her (a man can dream right?) or someone like her I would make sure they would never get cheated on & give them all the greatness of a relationship they deserve!


  8. Jamie

    I am so happy for Christina!! I’m so excited for this magazine cover!! I hope her music and acting takes off this year, she deserves success!!


  9. Leah

    @phil, do you know how to spell?? noe? wot? strenght? n? geez…pathetic


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