I totally agree. Tell her that you feel out of shape and you would relaly love her support in helping you work out and eat right. And go to the gym together, and make it fun, and always tell her that she’s super hot no matter what.If she resists that, try to get a doctor or trainer or something to tell her instead of you. That way it isn’t personal.And if for some reason you do tell her she needs to lose weight, don’t tell her to get surgery. It’s super painful and there are risks and if she’s not disciplined enough to lose weight by eating a little less, she’s not disciplined enough to keep the weight off after surgery.